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Some people are asking me why I am referring to baby as “he” in my blog posts and when I talk about baby.

NO we do not know if we are having a boy or a girl.

As I mentioned at the end of my post titled “Countdown is on…”, to make it easier and nicer than referring to baby as “it”, or “he or she” all the time, I use “he” to refer to baby and my husband says “she”. It balances itself out I think. I think it comes from not creating expectations for us to be disappointed with. Neither of us really cares if we have a boy or a girl. We are just hoping for a healthy baby.

I think at some point Moms often hope for girls and Dads often hope for boys to be able to have that special bond with their child. I would like one of my children to be a girl, because I really enjoy the bond my mother and I share. Also I think, ‘what am I going to do with a boy?’ Things like baking cookies, crafts, and shopping up are girly things mostly. My husband only has a brother and wasn’t raised around girls, so I presume deep down he wants a boy so he can share the ‘manly’ things with him. On the other hand there is a special bond parents share with their child of the opposite sex as well. 

Might make it confusing but makes sense to us. I really dislike saying “he or she” all the time. As I mentioned, in our regular scheduled ultrasound around 19 weeks, baby had his or her legs crossed. So even though we did not want to find out the sex, baby wasn’t revealing it to us anyway. 

Many people prophesies about what sex of child I am having. The majority of people think I am having a boy. Mostly telling me it is the way I am carrying baby, you don’t know how many times I hear “you are carrying like a boy”, my husband thinks that’s a funny comment and I’m carrying “like a baby”, not like one sex or the other. I’ve only had a few people think I am having a girl. My Mom and Grandfather, who like to think they are always right when it comes to predicting things like this, both think I am having a boy. Time will tell. 

I would honestly be happy with either a healthy baby boy or girl. Green is my favourite colour after all. 😉 

We had our ultrasound this past Monday; I would have been approximately 19 weeks and 2 days (give or take) pregnant.

I was scheduled for ultrasound weeks ago, and they scheduled me for it way out at Saanich Peninsula Hospital. I guess they are really busy, because the Save-On-Foods center where I know most OB ultrasounds are scheduled was booked and they were booking into December when I tried to change my appointment to be at a closer location.

We got a really nice technician, which I was super happy about (as per recent post I was worried about that). Baby’s head was way down, right next to my cervix, which she mentioned if baby was to be born today is a good place. Baby’s spine/back is along my left side, and feet are up in the top of my uterus, near my belly button and a little to the right. Hands are often up by baby’s head. This all makes sense now with the kicks and punches I have been feeling!

For taking pictures and measurements baby was not such a great place. The technician tried and tried (and pushed and pushed on my full bladder!) to get a proper measurement of his or her head, even tried to place me on my side, and halfway through the exam I emptied a little bit of my bladder – all done to see if baby would move out of that spot so she could get a head measurement – nope!

She went through the rest of the body, showing us as we went along (which was nice as I’m sure she did not have to do that). At times she would say “oh and there is ____, can you see that?” often my response was “yea, um… no”, and she would try to point it out. Definitely lots of smudges and spots on the screen that I didn’t really know what were. She pointed out the heart (4 ventricles), bladder, tiny kidneys, arms legs, spin, back of neck etc. It was also a little bit of a challenge for the technician to get a good photo of the heart, because baby had his or her arms up in front of his/her head. She did all her other measurements (besides the head), and let us know that I was on track for my due date.

We did get a couple print outs of some photos, though they are a little blurry, one is posted below (and the rest are posted on my flickr page):

When the technician was done, (and I was running to the bathroom, OMG I did not know my bladder could hold so much water!) she said she did not ask if we wanted to know the sex of the baby because she could not see it, baby had his or her legs crossed! We said thanks but we did not want to know anyway. 😉

I am now 19 weeks pregnant. Today we go for our ultrasound appointment (in Canada unless there are concerns, standard is one appointment between 18-20 weeks). I have to drink an entire 32 ounces of water by 1:15 PM for an appointment at 2:00 PM. I am not looking forward to it. I can only imagine what my discomfort will be. I have been a little nervous about the appointment. I have heard of friends who have gotten nasty ultrasound technicians, I even had a bad dream (vivid dreams are part of my pregnancy) that I forgot to drink my water before my appointment and I couldn’t find any water anywhere to have.Last Wednesday I started to feel a sharp pain in my lower abdomen (not severe just sharp). Initially I was really concerned and called the midwife office the next morning. After speaking to a midwife, she is pretty sure it is just round ligament pain. For me any type of pain, especially from down there, concerns me because I think it means something is wrong. It continues to happen on and off. Sometimes on my left side, radiating towards the center of me, it feel more like a sharp pain (not really an ache), and it only stays for a little while before it goes away. It can go on and off for a while sometimes. The midwife said currently nothing to worry about, unless it gets worse, starts to feel different, or is accompanied by bleeding.

I am starting to feel like I “look” pregnant or maybe just fat. I asked my husband this morning, because I am wearing a stretchy shirt if I looked too pregnant in what I was wearing. He just laughed and said he wasn’t going to answer. I guess it does sound like a silly question (if he choose to answer it might have been “um you are pregnant” lol), but I am still looking more chubby in the middle than pregnant. So I don’t want people to mistake me for fat instead of pregnant. And I do not really want to be flaunting pregnant yet, as I am not sure who knows and does not in my new office environment.